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This is assuming the story is real, not just some marketing campaign:

1. Therapy requires mutual trust to work. Administrating therapy at this point, after turning the child into an adversary by taking away electronics as a form of punishment, would make the child think that the therapy sessions are no more than another form of punishment. Nothing useful can come out of the therapy if the child perceives the therapist as an enemy.

2. It frightens me how people turns everything that is supposed to be a part of human life into a medical condition, and treat 'therapy' as the deus ex machina that could solve all inconveniences in our social life.


>It frightens me how people turns everything that is supposed to be a part of human life into a medical condition

In my experience it's correlated with the US West-coast passive aggression. Nothing can just be a difference in opinion and/or personality clash.


Exactly, which is why I'm a little concerned about the knee jerk reaction to promote mental health as a solution to problems we have in society (mass shootings, CP, suicide, etc).

As you said, you need the patient to want to change in order for progress to be made, and mixing punishment and therapy makes that nearly impossible.

What we need is a fundamental shift in how we view mental illness and discipline. Instead of just punishing people for doing something wrong, we should be looking at why the mistake was made and try to work with the individual to fix that and use punishment only if more effective methods don't work.

Maybe we need psychologists to work with parents/communities so parents know how to approach deviant behavior in a constructive way. I firmly believe that if parenting is done well, people will be better equipped to deal with problems later in life.


If you are in or plan to visit London please pay a visit to this exhibition of his works:

https://www.tate.org.uk/whats-on/tate-modern/exhibition/taki...

While all us techies have probably spent a lot of time studying (electro)magnetism, seeing seemly heavy objects suspended in mid-air is still a magical experience.


What’s your opinion on recovering alcoholics?


Known many, and that I respect as well. True alcoholism is an absolute monster, and the truth is that some people simply cannot stop once they start. Don't assume I think everyone should drink just for the sake of it--many people have excellent reasons for not doing so. Totally understandable. Many people who do not drink are beyond reproach.

And then some others are, well, Cathy/Kate from Steinbeck's 'East of Eden'.

Might change my original position to 'I don't trust anyone who doesn't drink without a good explanation such as a medical condition that precludes the enjoyment of the drink, religious convictions, or a history of or proclivity towards alcoholism. Sounds rather like an American prescription drug ad though.


They don’t have to deal with someone who are incapable of seeing people beyond their well-reasoned sobriety. I, for one, consider it a win.


I enjoy a good beer as much as the next guy, but I am still bothered by how alcohol is ingrained in our culture. Binge drinking seems to be regarded as an important part of social life, for example. Some UK-themed subreddits also have a tendency to celebrate sometimes irresponsible drinking, without considering the consequences.

Another pet peeve of mine is how many people use 'buy you a beer' or similar expressions to mean 'meet you up'. You are aware that not everyone drinks, no?


I looked it up and it seems that in England and Wales any place that serves alcohol must provide free drinking water, otherwise it doesn’t.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-39881236

Explanation of alcohol licensing on the government website. Search for the word water.

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/alcohol-licensing

There is also a campaign about providing free drinking water for refilling bottles:

https://refill.org.uk/


The UK is pretty far behind France in the water department. I talked to a French couple who had just got off the beach and were looking for showers and drinking water. There are none at our local beaches. When they asked where they could go for a shower and to fill up their water ... I couldn't think of anywhere they could go for free. Showers and drinking fountains are all over France, along with free camping.


Well, for free camping, not evrywhere, but municipalities in the south often provide it as an alternative to the forbidden wilderness camping.


Weather forecast says London is going to be 38 degrees tomorrow, with a humidity of over 60%. Railway companies are telling me not to travel tomorrow because the heat is likely to disrupt train services. Tube lines without air conditioning are going to be dangerously hot. I don’t know how this city is going to function tomorrow. Maybe it’s something we need to adapt to.


This happened a couple years ago on ICE (Inter City Express) trains in Germany: https://www.spiegel.de/international/germany/the-world-from-...

> As temperatures soared to 38 degrees Celsius (100 degrees Fahrenheit), the cooling system on many ICE high-speed trains simply switched off, leaving passengers to swelter amid inside temperatures of up to 50 degrees Celsius (122 degrees Fahrenheit).

> "A company that has aspirations to be a high-tech firm, but one which soft boils its customers instead of bringing them comfortably to their destination, has more than a small technical problem."


Wow, don't suppose they could open a window !


The ICE does not have windows that can be opened because it is a high speed train traveling at 200-300km/h.


I'd rather boil than open a window at 280km/h


FWIW, the richest man in Japan is the son of Korean immigrants.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masayoshi_Son


82% of the people in Singapore live in public housing.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Public_housing_in_Singapore

Public housing is only 'temporary' if we as a society choose to believe so. There is nothing that makes public housing inherently 'temporary' or undesirable.


pg has been inactive on HN for almost four years...


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