But in my experience, but "privilege" usually relies on invoking stereotypes (males, females, white, etc) and then shutting down individuals by invoking that their discussion is just 'privilege'.

I saw a 'yelling over each other' thread on Facebook in which white feminists were being name-called by black feminists calling them names of various sorts for supporting only white rights. Any modicum of discussion was drowned out by chest-beating of lines of racism and sexism. I believe that thread is still going on.

"Mansplaining" is yet another term that does that on sex based grounds. The term "manspreading" is yet another term with a sexist root- as only men can sit down and spread their lags in relaxation.