I am 37,I am fat and I am not programmer and I have been bullied for 20 years.I just became CEO of my own software firm finally and it doesnt do that well but I am fine,I feel life is far more easier and simpler, no more bullying.
I have few recommendations:
1.Never lower your selfesteem, no matter what the idea of bullying is to kill selfesteem and watch you crumble.
2.No matter what anybody says including your own mind never ever feel down,life is beautiful as it is...you are this remarkable human(all humans) who functions with 1 billion neurons ....
3.Its just a thought to give up and its just another thought to see how remarkable life is....these bullies of today or failures of tommorrow.
5.I can show you countless examples how bullying created a false confidence in them and then when life started to really hitback the bullies just didnt know to deal with they became utter failures, we who are bullied are prepared for life either ways,I think I am much more stronger and much better prepared on a positive side.Also I tend to go and support anybody who needs help.
6.If ever you need help in counseling and getting back into confidence, I am always open,I am part time motivational speaker:).
It's easy to say 'dont cruble', but your self esteem will go down if you cant find any help. I had some similar trouble in a primary school, and fortunately it ended after moving to another school, but it took a long time until i realized the problem was not in me.
I have few recommendations: 1.Never lower your selfesteem, no matter what the idea of bullying is to kill selfesteem and watch you crumble. 2.No matter what anybody says including your own mind never ever feel down,life is beautiful as it is...you are this remarkable human(all humans) who functions with 1 billion neurons .... 3.Its just a thought to give up and its just another thought to see how remarkable life is....these bullies of today or failures of tommorrow. 5.I can show you countless examples how bullying created a false confidence in them and then when life started to really hitback the bullies just didnt know to deal with they became utter failures, we who are bullied are prepared for life either ways,I think I am much more stronger and much better prepared on a positive side.Also I tend to go and support anybody who needs help.
6.If ever you need help in counseling and getting back into confidence, I am always open,I am part time motivational speaker:).